SAY NO TO ISRAEL

Today we made use of attack-blind explode from the army israel to the palestinian region. hundreds of people have been killed in the attack.
all over the world to give sympathy to palestinian as a form of solidarity.
hatred israel palestine to the nation is indeed beyond the limits. because of that the whole world united to destroy the state of Israel from the surface of the earth. they are not eligible for sa life as a nation, because throughout history they always create confusion on this earth.

all the people in this world, always love peace, all religions that exist on earth is also taught that, unless the Jewish religion is the belief that israel.
era if Hitler Nazi army is hate Jewish nation, not a spirit that we grow up at this time. we must work together and unite against the imperialist nations such as Jewish.

even so large that the nation is the world speed police union, not reaction, and even tends to let the Jews of Israel brutality continues. interesting to see how the action elected president of the USA To Barrack Obama for this.

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fascism in "pagan" WORLD

Basically, as the pagan culture, religion in pre-Christian period is polytheistic. The people of Europe believes that the false gods they worship symbolizes the strength or the various aspects of life, and that's important is the god of war, is very similar to that appear in almost every pagan community ..
The high dignity of the god of war because the pagan beliefs in this regard the violence as a sacred. The pagan people basically uneducated and continues to live in a state of war. To kill and shed blood on behalf of the people they regarded as a sacred obligation. Almost all kinds of cruelty and violence allowed in paganism. There is no basis for ethics prohibits violence or cruelty. Even Rome, which is considered as the country 'most civilized' in the pagan world, is a place where people are forced to put-off-off or are torn by wild animals. Emperor Nero ascended to the throne kill countless people, including mothers, wives, brothers and sister in law own. He threw the Christians to the arena for burn up beasts of prey, and the strain of thousands of people solely because of their beliefs. One example is worst how he ordered the city of Rome burning while playing lira and the view of the egregious is his palace.whose from the window.
Although immersed in Roman culture of violence, nations and barbarian pagan in the north, such as the Vandals, Goths and Visigoths, still more savage again. In addition to the pillage of Rome, they still destroy each other. Violence in the pagan world power, all kinds of brutality is allowed, and ethics is ignored.
The best example of the "fascist system" in the pagan world, in the sense of modern, is the city-state Sparta in Greece.

Sparta: A Model for The fascist

Sparta is a country's military, which devote themselves to the war and violence, and is estimated to be built by Likurgus in the 8 century BC. Sparta implement the nation's education system is very regular. Under the system of Sparta, the country is far more important than the individual. Measured based on the life of people for the benefit of their country. Children men who are strong and healthy in the country, while babies are ill disposed to the mountains to die.
(Practices nation Sparta this precedent by Nazi Germany, and stated that, by the strong influence of Darwinism, those who ill-sickly must be removed to maintain a "healthy race and winning.") In Sparta, parents are responsible enlarge male children until their seven years of age. After that, until the age of 12 years, children are placed in groups of 15 people later, and the most prominent being elected leader. Children fill the time by strengthening their bodies and prepare for war with the exercise.
Literacy is not considered important, and there is little interest in music or literature. Songs that can be sung and learned the children are just songs about war and violence. (Very similar to the education of children from 4 years of age who applied under fascism Mussolini and Hitler). Sparta is a habit make some doctrins people in the spirit of war, with the expense of art, literature, and education.
One of the most important thinkers who provide detailed information about Sparta is the famous Greek philosopher, Plato. Although he lives in Athens, which was governed democratically, he was impressed with the fascist system in Sparta, and in the book-book describes Sparta as a model country. Due to the tendency of fascist Plato, Karl Popper, one of the leading thinkers to the century-20, in the famous book The Open Society and Its enemies, Plato describes the first as a source of inspiration for the oppressor regime, and the enemies of open society. To support his statement, Popper refers to how Plato calmly defend the killing of children in Sparta, and depict Plato as the first theoretical support of "eugenics" (movement improving the quality of the human species through the control of descendants.)
... The noble who must feel himself as a superior race of the exalted. 'Race of the guards should be kept to remain pristine,' said Plato (in the defense against the murder of a baby), while developing the argument that racist breed animals with our full attention, but neglect our own race, an argument that since the re-started it. (Killing babies is not the habit of Athens; Plato, who see this done in Sparta for purposes eugenics, concluded that such action would take place since the first period, and certainly good reason.) He asks the principles that applied to maintain the same ancestry, race superior, as is done against the experienced dog breeder, horse or bird. 'If you do not maintain their descendants in this way, not race or bird dog you will quickly deteriorate?' Argument that Plato, and his conclusion that the 'similar principles apply to the human race'. Quality-racial quality expected of a bodyguard or additional troops, especially, as the shepherd dog. 'The athlete-knight ... we must be vigilant like the watchdog', Plato aver, and he asked: 'obvious, along with fitness related to their natural guard, there is no difference between the young gallant and brave animal breed of dog with both. "3
The views of Plato, which considers the human animal as a species, and suggested that they "developed" through a "forced marriage", appears again to the surface with the arrival Darwinism in the 19th century, and adopted by the Nazi-century to 20. We will discuss this in the next pages.
When people defend the model of Sparta, Plato also to other aspects of fascism, namely the use of repression by the state to manage the community. According to Plato, this pressure must all off so that people may not afford to have anything other than the commandments of the country, and conduct oneself in a perfect loyalty to the state policy, with intelligence and ignoring the will free them. The words of Plato, the following Popper cited as a full statement about the fascist mentality, describes the structure of fascist order:
The highest principle is above all that there is no one, both men and women, without a leader. I do not mind who can habitly about doing anything; can not lose the spirit, even just a play I can not. Both in time of war and peace, he must faithfully comply with their leaders. In even the smallest matters, it must be at the bottom of leadership. For example, he must be awake, moving, bathing, or eating ... only when ordered. In short, he must train his soul, through Introducing a long time, that dream never act freely, and not have the ability to have the same once. 4
Various ideas and practices, which were submitted by the Sparta, also of Plato, shows the characteristics of basic human look-fascism as merely animals, rabid racism, the spread of war and conflict, repression by the state, and "the formal indoctrination."
Practices similar fascism can also be found in other pagan people. The system built by the fir'aun, ruler of ancient Egypt, in certain aspects can reconcile with fascism Sparta. The fir'aun Egypt build a state system based principles of military discipline, and use it to oppress, even against their own people. Ramses II, ruler of Egypt who did wrong, believed to live in the era of Prophet Moses, ordered the murder of all male children Jewish. This reminded maltreatment in the killing of babies in Sparta. Forms of psychological oppression, which he did to the people themselves are also reminded that the system fascism described by Plato. As disclosed in the Al-Quran Allah, Fir'aun with felonious ultimate people: "... I do not propose to you, but what I'm good perspective and I have no way to the truth." (QS. Al-Mu'min, 40: 29) He also threaten the sorcerer who reject pagannya and the confidence to follow the true religion of Moses, "... Do you believe him before I give you permission ... I will cut the hands and feet with a cross ambivalent back, and then solemnly I will crucify you all. " (QS. Al A'raaf, 7: 123-124)

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Origins of fascist mentality

Fascism is an ideology rooted in Europe. Fascism foundation built by a number of European thinkers in the 19th century, and practiced in the 20th Century by countries such as Italy and Germany. Other countries, which influenced or implementing fascism, "import" this ideology of Europe. Therefore, to analyze sources of fascism, we must turn to the history of Europe.
History of Europe has experienced several phases and periods. However, in the sense of exposure, we can divide it into three major periods:
1) the period of pre-Christian (pagan period)
2) the period when Christianity achieve dominance in European culture.
3) The period of post-Christian (the materialist)

Many readers may be considered strange ideas about the "post-Christian", because up to now Christian religion is still a majority in the European community. However, when the Christian religion is no longer the dominant aspect of culture in Europe: the left is merely a formality. Many of ideology and the concept of real people who now directs the formed not by the commandments of the religion, but from the materialist philosophy. The flow of anti-religion began in the 18th century, and dominate the world of knowledge and ideas in the 19th century. And, in the 20th Century is the various disasters that caused materialism finally appear.From...

the third period, it appears that fascism occurred in the first period and third. In other words, fascism is the product of paganism, and then strengthened again by the rising materialism. Fascist ideology or practice did not appear for more than a thousand years, when the Christian religion to dominate Europe. This is because the Christian religion of peace and equality. Christian, who told people to love, I love, sacrifice, and good think completely contrary to the hearts of fascism.
Christianity is a religion initially the god disseminated by Jesus. After, religion is deviating from the shape of the original with a number of implementation and interpretation. However however, he still maintains some aspects of the essence of true religion, with a concept such as love, affection, sacrifice and humanity, as indicated above.
Now, we glimpse a pra-Christian Europe and the origin of fascism.

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Coverage curtain fascism

PREFACE
Fascism known as the ideology that was born and grew fertile in the 20th Century. It spread rapidly across the world at the beginning of World War I, with authority fascist regimes in Germany and Italy in particular, but also in countries such as Greece, Spain, and Japan, where people are suffering by the way the government full violence. Faced with the pressure and violence, they can only shudder. And the fascist dictator who led the government for such a system in which the strength of the brutal, aggression, bloodshed, violence and become law-wave of terror to send all the people through secret police and their fascist militia, which paralyze people with fear. Furthermore, the fascist government applied in almost all levels of society, from education to culture, religion to art, the structure of the government until the military system, and from political organizations to the personal lives of the people. In the end, the World War II, which was started by fascist nation, is one of the largest catastrophe in the history of mankind, that their lives 55 million people.
However, the ideology fascism not only in history books. Although currently no country that itself as fascist or openly practicing fascism, in the various countries in the world there are many governments, political parties and groups that follow the pattern fascism. Although the name and their tactics has changed, they still continue their idea similar woes on the people. it can be, the deterioration of social conditions can create support for fascism developed further. Therefore, fascism ongoing threat to humanity.
This book is written for the face hazards that continue to haunt them. In addition to the various fascism trend that appears in various forms and methods, this book is also intended to reveal the root of the target and that they indeed. Another goal is to uncover disclose "religious" are sometimes used fascism and reveal its existence as a system that is contrary to the true religion.

To treat the disease, first identified the virus that causes need, and then be found the cure. Thus, conditions that allow the disease can develop removed, so that the disease itself can to destroy. Similarly, the case, so free from fear will be "fascism", people must oppose the policies and ideological influence-influence that support development. As we will study in this book, the fundamental principle behind fascism today is Darwinism, which will be established as a scientific theory, although there is not so. However, Darwinism, stating that claims such as "humans are animals that have developed the perfect", "race has left some in the process of evolution," and "through natural selection, the strong will survive and the weak loose", has become a source for many dangerous ideology throughout the 20th century, especially fascism. Therefore, as we will be more detailed, Darwinism responsible for much oppression and violence.
In fact, even in our countries there is no movement or fascist practices, those who have been working to generate fascism monitored, and Darwinism not widely accepted, we can not relax vigilance. All people of good conscience must participate in the ideological struggle of all against the ideology and the power to make mischief in the earth and destroy the peace and intend order. He has told people to live safely and peacefully. In the Al-Quran Allah ordered:

"O those who believe, you go into Islam whole, and do not take steps devil. Indeed, the devil is the real enemy is. "(QS. Al-Baqarah, 2: 208)

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The Prophet Muhammad is a Hindu nation

Quoted Aktualita bulletin from the World Islamic Minna no 58/II III / February 1998

New Delhi, India. A language professors from ALAHABAD UNIVERSITY INDIA in one of the last book, entitled "KALKY AUTAR" (Help the Most Great) issued a new statement that contains a very surprising Hindu intellectual circles.

The professors openly and with the scientific reasons, to invite the Hindu adherent to immediately embrace Islam, and at the same time mengimani brochure brought by the Messenger of Allah, because he was, in fact Prophet Muhammad is the figure that local government as a form of truth and spiritual reformer.

Prof.. WAID BARKASH (book author), which are still a nation of priestly Brahmin said that he has to submit the results of studies of eight priestly Hindu nation and they all agree to conclusions and call that has been expressed in the book. All the criteria mentioned in the holy books of Hindu nation (Wedha) on the characteristics of "KALKY AUTAR" exactly the same characteristics that are owned by the Messenger of Allah Saw.

In the Hindu teachings about the characteristics mentioned KALKY AUTAR of them, that he will be born in the peninsula, called his father and mother SYANUYIHKAT called SUMANEB. In the language of sanskrit word SYANUYIHKAT is the blend of two words that mean God SYANU while YAHKAT means boys or slaves in the Arabic language called ABDUN.

Thus SYANUYIHKAT word meaning "ABDULLAH". Similarly SUMANEB word in the language sanscrit means AMANA or AMAAN the language translation Arabnya "AMINAH." Meanwhile, all the people know that the name of the father is the Messenger of Allah Saw ABDULLAH AMINAH and the name of his mother.

In the book Wedha also mentioned that the Lord will send his envoy sebiuah into the cave to teach KALKY AUTAR (Help the Most Great). Stories are called in the book will remind Wedha this event in Hira when the angel Gabriel over the Prophet Muhammad to teach him about the revelation of Islam.

Other evidence presented by Prof. Barkash that the book Wedha also told that God will give Kalky Autar animal horse who is very quick flight that brought kalky Autar corral seven layers of heaven. This is a signal event directly Isra 'Mi'raj where Rasullah in Buroq.

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Rose and Flower Tree Cemara

Perhaps in the middle of the forest, rose laugh pine tree and said: "Although you grow so sturdy, but you do not have a fragrance that can not attract bees and the bumblebee to get closer."

Pine trees are silent. Thus rose in any broadcast and told pine tree poorly visible, so make a pine tree and go out alone in the middle of the forest.

When winter comes and the snow is dense, rose the proud very difficult to maintain their lives. Similarly, trees and other flowers. Only a pine tree that still stood upright in the middle of a storm that throws cold earth.

In the middle of the night silent, snow chatting with a pine tree. Snow said: "Every year I come to this earth, always see the prosperity and sounds of the earth be changed. Only the arid and desolate quiet envelop the earth. However, you only can pass the test and I stood up to all kinds may retain natural pressure. Similarly, natural and human life is always changing. "

Thus the discussion between the pine trees and snow that occurred in the middle of the night in the winter. Sad and happy always come again switch; only with persistence soul and mind, the happiness that we will be able to achieve. Obscenities and defamation can not impose a strong person.

Expression in the East there is a word often said: "upturned to the sky and discard the saliva." and "sow the dust with a contrary wind."

This all-around foolishness someone do that ignorance and ultimately harm himself. Facing the scandal and reproachful, someone should be held in the chest like a big sky be bordered.

Light and cloudy weather always again switch. Learning is like a clear mirror can see the actual situation.

Rose only feel pride and satisfaction moment, but the pine tree can face, receive and refraining with calm and patience.

We must learn from nature pine tree holding a hard attack, attack both the action, speech and mind; and make something cool, warm and peaceful

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Learning from Grasshopper

a grasshopper has long been imprisoned in a box. One day he successfully out of the box that cage. Delighted with his leap to enjoy their freedom. In his trip to meet with other animal grasshopper. However, he wonder why the grasshopper can jump higher and more distant from.

With the curious, he approached the grasshopper, and asked, "Why you can jump higher and further, when we are not much different from the age of the body or form?"

Grasshopper is also an answer to the question, "Where you live for this? Because all the grasshopper who live in nature would be free to do as I do."

At that time the new locust that, for this box that does not make his jump as far as a grasshopper and other living free in nature.

Sometimes we as human beings, without conscious, have also experienced the same thing with the grasshopper. The bad environment, mortification, trauma of the past, the failure of the beruntun, the words of a friend or neighbor, seems to make us isolated in the box that pseudo restrict all our excess.

Do not you ever questioned the conscience that you can "jump higher and further" if you want to remove "box" is? Do not you want to liberate themselves so that you can achieve something that is beyond the limit you consider your ability?

Lucky us as human beings possess the ability to fight the Lord, not only surrender it on what we experienced. Therefore friends, keep trying achieve anything you want to achieve. Pain is, indeed tired, but when you have reached the peak, all the sacrifice that will due

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MANAGE OUR ANGRY

What this also? Cook angry just policy. I was entitled to excite you anger, but in many situations there is a limit-exhaustible.

For example, less profitable when you rage in front of the class. Even though you feel is correct and can show all the evidence and arguments that support. Because, other people will tend to be defensive and went on to develop the desire vengeance. So spoke Dr.. Sandra Thomas, RN, a Ph.D. researcher and director of respecting anger Center for Nursing Research at the University of Tennese, Knoxville.


I know the origin, not only the ethics of social and cultural causes we must limit the sense of anger but also health issues involved. "When angry, our bodies have various physiological changes, because the reaction against the trigger anger or fled," said Christopher Peterson, PhD, the author of your Optimism and Health psychology lecturer at the University of Michigan, Ann Harbor.

"The adrenalin increases, the heart on faster, adrenalin hunt and shallow, digestion stops," he added. So, often morose can use heart disease risk, high blood pressure and disease death.

Even in the research of the last doctors at the University of North Carolina, they find people who temperamental (Caliban) have three times the risk of heart disease and acute fatal. This result was obtained when they examine as many as 13 thousand people in North Carolina for six years.

"All the emotions have certain influence to the way we think. But emotionally-strong emotions that can slow the ability of Reasoning, problem-solving ability and decision making us," he said. Mara Julius, Sc.D, expert knowledge in the psychosocial epidemic og University of Michigan School of Public Health, which has more than 20 years to learn how to overcome the anger that affect the health of men and women.

"When you feel angry or disturb by revenge, it becomes all the burden. In some people, this slow process of thinking and in some other candidate to stop the process of thinking at all," he continued.

True ways Anger
When feelings of anger you handled properly, according to Dr. Julius, you designate any of the problems of social relationships and health. So, below is how angry the drama.

1. Find a safe place.
Find a place "safe" to excite you angry. How, before you It's people who make you irritated, it's talking about people that you trust. Select a close friend, boyfriend, or someone you trust to disarm you. Because, if you can even so angry desperate another problems. And ultimately you add sick, etc. irritated.

2. Approach people who make you angry
After angry you feel calm, speak in person to be a "source of the problem." It is important to make clear all the problems. The speech, for example with, "or the words you acts, disrupt the plan. There must be straightened and the discussion. What we can discuss this with the good?"

3. Identify things that cause you ire.
Find the root of the problem to finding factor stimulation. Surely there are things that usually underlie certain reactions you angry. If not successful, start recording when the angry reactions that arise and writing experiences temper you. This is intended to give you the opportunity to learn the Israeli and react more rational. Finally, the candidate you feel able to stop them with direct confrontation.

4. Find out how to escape.
If you temper, there is the suggestion to use the energy that is overabundant in the positive. For example, the use of energy for physical activity. As Jogging or other sports. Its sports channel adrenalin more positive rather given dissolve itself. And you can purify the mind temporarily.

5. Set adrenalin
When the furor covered, try to extend the time the consumers themselves. You can go from the moment the situation. Find a quiet place and do a kind of meditation with inhalation in-in. After a calm mind, you just wish that explain what you say. (from various sources)

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KETIKA DOSEN HARUS BERPERAN

Mahasiswa adalah icon-icon perubahan zaman yang sangat berperan dalam menentukan perubahan itu sendiri. Dengan segala kelebihan yang mereka miliki, baik secara langsung maupun tidak langsung akan memberikan kontribusi yang nyata di negeri ini. Mereka adalah aset masa depan yang sangat berharga. Bahkan bisa dikatakan sebagai investasi jangka panjang yang tak ternilai harganya.Tidak semua mahasiswa bisa dikatakan demikian. Hanya mereka yang secara terpilihlah yang bisa meyandang predikat itu. Saya katakan demikian karena memang kenyataannya seperti itu. Ada beribu mahasiswa di negeri ini. Dari ujung barat kepulauan Indonesia hingga ujung timur. Dari Perguruan Tinggi yang ada di Aceh hingga yang ada di Papua sana. Apakah semuanya bisa diandalkan untuk merubah kondisi negeri yang semrawut ini menjadi negeri yang aman, damai, nan sentosa? Yang jelas jangan hanya tersenyum simpul menyaksikan fenomena ini. Ada banyak hal yang bisa kita kaji dari sini.


Salah satunya, kondisi kampus. Ini berperan banyak dalam pembentukan pola pikir mahasiswa. Kondisi pengajar, staf dan karyawan, fasilitas kampus yang ada, dan tata aturan yang berlaku di kampus tersebut akan mendorong bagaimana mahasiswa akan bertidak mensikapi fenomena masyarakat yang terjadi saat itu. Contoh saja, mahasiswa yang menapaki bangku kuliah pada kampus yang sudah maju, memiliki akreditasi yang tinggi, para pengajar yang profesional dan aktif memberikan motivasi pada didikannya, Unit Kegiatan Mahasiswa (UKM) yang memadai dan saling berkompetensi, juga fasilitas lain yang benar-benar mendukung keberlangsungan segala aktifitas di kampus tentunya akan mempermudah mahasiswa dalam berpikir kritis karena disamping sudah berakar dari keinginan diri juga mendapat semacam amunisi dari lingkungan pendidikannya. Berbeda sekali dengan mahasiswa yang menapaki bangku kuliah pada kampus yang memiliki akreditasi rendah, staf pengajar yang biasa-biasa saja, UKM yang hanya memiliki struktur kepengurusan namun nihil akan kegiatan nyata, juga fasilitas yang tidak memadai, maka mahasiswa tersebut akan sangat kurang peduli dengan situasi dan kondisi yang terjadi. Bisa jadi ia tidak sadar bahwa negerinya kini tengah dilanda berbagai bencana, kondisi ekonomi yang mengecam rakyat, juga fenomena-fenomena lain yang sejatinya menjadi tugas dan kewajibannya untuk merubah kondisi tersebut. Memang, semuanya akan tergantung pada diri masing-masing. Tetapi sungguh ini akan memberikan pengaruh yang besar bagi mahasiswa.

Saya pikir, motivasi dari para dosen lah yang sangat berperan di lingkungan kampus. Mereka yang secara langsung maupun tidak langsung bisa memberikan sumbangsih mereka dalam mengembangkan idealisme yang tertanam. Kalaupun idealisme itu belum tertanam, maka bisa menjadi suatu kemungkinan yang besar bahwa merekalah yang akan menanamkannya. Saya sebenarnya sangat mendambakan para dosen yang selalu mau memberikan motivasi pada mahasiswa untuk terus maju, meningkatkan kualitas diri, dan serta merta memberikan kontribusi nyata di negeri ini. Minimal mereka bisa meluangkan beberapa menit mereka sebelum atau sesudah mengajar untuk memberikan motivasi itu. Akan lebih baik jika saat mereka melakukan transfer ilmu kepada para mahasiswa, semua pengaplikasiannya merujuk pada sebuah relita bahwa saat ini bangsa kita Indonesia membutuhkan para pemimpin yang benar-benar bisa memimpin bangsa ini, bukan membutuhkan para pemimpi. Para pemimpi disini maksud saya adalah seorang yang larut pada keinginan- keinginan semata tanpa sebuah kerja nyata, juga sebuah mimpi yang nantinya hanya memberikan kepuasan diri semata, meninggikan egoisme pribadi tanpa memikirkan bagaimana nasib seluruh...

masyarakat di negeri ini.
Saya rasa ini tidak sulit bagi dosen. Setidaknya, disamping kewajiban mereka sebagai staf pengajar telah selesai akan ada poin tersendiri layaknya sebuah bonus sebagai ladang amal untuk membantu membangun bangsa ini. Ketika input-input motivasi yang rutin diberikan itu, bisa dikatakan sebagai fase awal yang kontinyu. Tapi mungkin agaknya saya harus kecewa. Jangankan memberikan motivasi, kadang saya menemui dosen yang seolah tidak sepenuhnya memberikan mata kuliah. Pembahasannya terlalu mepet dan sebatas berlalu-lala berputar kesana-kemari. Mungkin beberapa dosen bertujuan mengajarkan mahasiswa agar mereka berkembang mencari segala yang kurang dijelaskannya. Tapi bukan itu maksud saya. Saya justru sangat mendukung jika mereka berlaku demikian. Yang saya sayangkan kadang tidak ada komunukasi yang inten mengenai cara yang mereka lakukan padahal dalam komunikasi tersebutlah ada celah-celah yang bisa dimasuki untuk menumbuhkan semangat mahasiswa dalam mengarungi perjalanan perkuliahannya yang akan memberi dampak yang besar. Kemudian mungkin yang menjadi kendala yang lain, para dosen sering korupsi waktu. Sering mereka keenakan melihat mayoritas mahasiswa yang kegirangan saat perkuliahan dituntaskan lebih awal. Dan, itu berarti mereka tidak memperhatikan minoritas mahasiswa yang ada?

Mungkin itulah yang masih perlu kita bangun bersama. Sebuah niatan yang suci menuju sisi moralitas yang handal. Ketika mahasiswa dengan segala idealismenya untuk menghantarkan negeri ini menuju kesejahteraan yang hakiki namun terbentur dengan realita segi moralitas yang kian merosot, maka tidak menutup kemungkinan idealisme yang terbangun itu akan sedikit demi sedikit melemah, merosot, berhamburan seperti buih di lautan yang tida berguna. Tentunya jika mahasiswa tidak mengimbanginya dengan aktifitas lain yang mampu mnguatkannya idealismenya itu.

Bagi saya, dosen bisa dijadikan sebagai cerminan. Ketika saya melakukan sesuatu yang menurut saya benar, kemudian saya melihat dosen saya juga berlaku demikian, maka hal tersebut biasanya akan semakin memperkuat intuisi yang ada di jiwa saya. Saya akan lebih meningkatkan apa yang saya lakukan karena seolah mendapatkan "teman" dalam jengkal langkah ini. Ketika ada sesuatu yang saya lakukan namun di saat yang bersamaan saya menyaksikan sebuah pemandangan yang bertolak belakang dengan apa yang saya lakukan, dan itu dilakukan oleh dosen saya maka akan mengajak otak saya untuk berpikir ulang apakah yang saya lakukan itu sudah betul atau belum. Jika memang terbukti saya benar, maka saya akan bertahan dan jika terbukti saya salah maka saya akan berusaha memperbaiki hal tersebut. Itu hanya contoh kecil dari saya, dan saya percaya banyak mahasiswa yang menganggap dosen sebagai sebuah cerminan. Itulah salah satu alasan mengapa penting sekali peran dosen dalam membangun idealisme mahasiswa.

Ada sebuah kondisi yang memaksa diri mahasiswa tidak berkembang. Mahasiswa ditutut untuk stagnan dengan situasi yang terjadi. Selain kondisi kampus, juga kaitannya dengan aktifitas lain yang digeluti mahasiswa di luar jam pekuliahan. Apa yang mereka lakukan saat waktu luang, bagaimana mereka memanfaatkannya agar waktu yang ada tidak berpredikat sebagai sebuah kesia-siaan. Mungkin, untuk mereka yang sudah terbiasa bekerja di luar jam kuliah itu sudah menjadi agenda rutin yang tak bisa diganggu. Namun bagi mareka yang hanya terobsesi pada kuliah? Saya rasa ini juga terjadi banyak perbedaan. Sekarang kita bandingkan mahasiswa yang aktif, baik di kampus maupun di luar kampus, dengan mahasiswa yang "study oriented". Mahasiswa yang memiliki aktifitas lain selain kuliah, akan mendapatkan pelajaran tambahan berupa softskill yang secara langsung mereka aplikasikan dan tidak mereka dapatkan pada bangku kuliah. Kita tahu sendiri bukan, bahwa tidak ada materi-materi lain yang diajarkan selain materi kuliah yang kadang sebagian besar mahasiswa menganggapnya sebagai hal yang amat membosankan. Di sinilah perannya. Bukan sekedar pengisi waktu luang saja, akan tetapi lebih menuju kepada peningkatan kualitas diri menggapai sebuah cita-cita dan arahan hidup yang jelas. Kita tengok mereka yang hanya diam. Berangakt kuliah, pulang ke tempat kos atau ke rumah mereka, atau mungkin berbelok arah dulu sebelum pulang untuk nongkrong di mall-mall atau di kafe-kafe. Mereka seolah-olah tidak merasakan perjuangan hidup yang nyata. Sungguh hedonis!

Berbahagialah mahasiswa yang sangat mengerti urgensi waktu dalam kehidupan ini. Ia tahu betul apa yang bisa ia lakukan untuk memberi manfaat kapada masyarakat. Dan kembali lagi saya ingin menegaskan bahwa peran dosenpun dalam hal ini amatlah diperlukan.

Kepada para dosen, saya sangat berharap beliau-beliau itu bisa memberikan kontribusi dalam membangun idealisme mahasiswa, agar investasi-investasi masa depan itu tidak punah dari kemiskinan berpikir, agar perkembangan di negeri ini benar-benar dinamis, bukan sebuah kestatisan yang dipelihara berlama-lama, dan yang tak kalah penting yaitu mereka sekaligus bisa menjadi teladan bagi mahasiswa yang mereka ajar.

Wahai pak dosen, bu dosen, dengarkanlah suara hati dari seorang mahasiswa yang ingin maju ini. Percayalah! Seandainya kalian bersedia berperan, maka tidak ada lagi kesia-siaan. Sekali lagi, meski semuanya akan kembali kepada diri mahasiswa, peran kalian sungguh amat diperlukan. Selamat berjuang!

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Cinta dan Perkawinan Menurut Plato

Satu hari, Plato bertanya pada gurunya, "Apa itu cinta? Bagaimana saya bisa menemukannya?

Gurunya menjawab, "Ada ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. Berjalanlah kamu dan tanpa boleh mundur kembali, kemudian ambillah satu saja ranting. Jika kamu menemukan ranting yang kamu anggap paling menakjubkan, artinya kamu telah menemukan cinta" Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan tangan kosong, tanpa membawa apapun.

Gurunya bertanya, "Mengapa kamu tidak membawa satupun ranting?"

Plato menjawab, "Aku hanya boleh membawa satu saja, dan saat berjalan tidak boleh mundur kembali (berbalik)"

Sebenarnya aku telah menemukan yang paling menakjubkan, tapi aku tak tahu apakah ada yang lebih menakjubkan lagi di depan sana, jadi tak kuambil ranting tersebut. Saat kumelanjutkan berjalan lebih jauh lagi, baru kusadari bahwasanya ranting-ranting yang kutemukan kemudian tak sebagus ranting yang tadi, jadi tak kuambil sebatangpun pada akhirnya"

Gurunya kemudian menjawab " Jadi ya itulah cinta"

Di hari yang lain, Plato bertanya lagi pada gurunya, "Apa itu perkawinan? Bagaimana saya bisa menemukannya?"

Gurunya pun menjawab "Ada hutan yang subur didepan sana. Berjalanlah tanpa boleh mundur kembali (menoleh) dan kamu hanya boleh menebang satu pohon saja. Dan tebanglah jika kamu menemukan pohon yang paling tinggi, karena artinya kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkawinan"

Plato pun berjalan, dan tidak seberapa lama, dia kembali dengan membawa pohon. Pohon tersebut bukanlah pohon yang segar / subur, dan tidak juga terlalu tinggi. Pohon itu biasa-biasa saja.

Gurunya bertanya, "Mengapa kamu memotong pohon yang seperti itu?"

Plato pun menjawab, "sebab berdasarkan pengalamanku sebelumnya, setelah menjelajah hampir setengah hutan, ternyata aku kembali dengan tangan kosong. Jadi dikesempatan ini, aku lihat pohon ini, dan kurasa tidaklah buruk-buruk amat, jadi kuputuskan untuk menebangnya dan membawanya kesini. Aku tidak mau menghilangkan kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya"

Gurunyapun kemudian menjawab, "Dan ya itulah perkawinan"

CATATAN - KECIL :

Cinta itu semakin dicari, maka semakin tidak ditemukan. Cinta adanya di dalam lubuk hati, ketika dapat menahan keinginan dan harapan yang lebih. Ketika pengharapan dan keinginan yang berlebih akan cinta, maka yang didapat adalah kehampaan... tiada sesuatupun yang didapat, dan tidak dapat dimundurkan kembali. Waktu dan masa tidak dapat diputar mundur. Terimalah cinta apa adanya.

Perkawinan adalah kelanjutan dari Cinta. Adalah proses mendapatkan kesempatan, ketika kamu mencari yang terbaik diantara pilihan yang ada, maka akan mengurangi kesempatan untuk mendapatkannya, Ketika kesempurnaan ingin kau dapatkan, maka sia2lah waktumu dalam mendapatkan perkawinan itu, karena, sebenarnya kesempurnaan itu hampa adanya.

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BEDA ANTARA SUKA, CINTA DAN SAYANG

Dihadapan orang yang kau cintai,
musim dingin berubah menjadi musim semi yang indah

Dihadapan orang yang kau sukai,
musim dingin tetap saja musim dingin hanya
suasananya lebih indah sedikit

Dihadapan orang yang kau cintai,
jantungmu tiba tiba berdebar lebih cepat

Dihadapan orang yang kau sukai,
kau hanya merasa senang dan gembira saja

Apabila engkau melihat kepada mata orang yang
kau cintai, matamu berkaca-kaca

Apabila engkau melihat kepada mata orang yang
kau sukai, engkau hanya tersenyum saja

Dihadapan orang yang kau cintai,
kata kata yang keluar berasal dari perasaan yang terdalam

Dihadapan orang yang kau sukai,
kata kata hanya keluar dari pikiran saja

Jika orang yang kau cintai menangis,
engkaupun akan ikut menangis disisinya

Jika orang yang kau sukai menangis,
engkau hanya menghibur saja

Perasaan cinta itu dimulai dari mata, sedangkan
rasa suka dimulai dari telinga
Jadi jika kau mau berhenti menyukai seseorang,
cukup dengan ...

cukup dengan menutup telinga.

Tapi apabila kau mencoba menutup matamu dari
orang yang kau cintai, cinta itu berubah menjadi
tetesan air mata dan terus tinggal dihatimu dalam
jarak waktu yang cukup lama.

"Tetapi selain rasa suka dan rasa cinta... ada
perasaan yang lebih mendalam.
Yaitu rasa sayang.... rasa yang tidak hilang
secepat rasa cinta. Rasa yang tidak mudah berubah.

Perasaan yang dapat membuat mu berkorban untuk orang yang kamu sayangi.
Mau menderita demi kebahagiaan orang yang kamu sayangi.

Cinta ingin memiliki. Tetapi Sayang hanya ingin
melihat orang yang disayanginya bahagia..
walaupun harus kehilangan."

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Karena Wanita Ingin Dimengerti

Pernah-pernik kisah kehidupan berumah tangga kadang membuat saya sedih, tapi banyak juga yang membuat saja tersenyum ketika membaca atau mendengarnya. Seperti Ibu saya. Pernah suatu ketika ayah saya sedikit marah kepada Ibu saya. Ibu saya tak mau berkomentar atau membalas dengan kemarahan serupa. Hanya saja, langsung masuk ke kamar dan menangis sejadinya. Kalau sudah begitu, ayah saya luluh juga, kemudian minta maaf karena mungkin telah berlaku kasar atau marah yang kadang hanya karena persoalan sepele saja. Untuk mereka berdua, salam cinta, semoga dirumah baik-baik saja

Ada cerita dari dosen dan juga “guru mengaji “ saya. Suatu ketika istrinya bepergian untuk urusan tertentu dan sang suaminya belum berkesempatan menemani karena alasan kesibukan. Perjalanan cukup jauh dan melelahkan. Dalam kondisi seperti itu, istrinya ingin sekali mendapatkan hiburan dari suaminya. Yah, sebuah SMS menanyakan kabarnya cukuplah. Tapi itu tidak dilakukan oleh suaminya. Dan tentu saja, istrinya bete. “Suamiku tega sekali, nggak khawatir apa dengan diriku” begitu kira-kira.

Setelah urusan selesai, pulanglah sang istri ke rumah. Mengucapkan salam lantas masuk kerumahnya. Apa yang terjadi, ternyata suaminya biasa saja. Tak mengekspresikan rasa kangennya kepada istrinya. Dan bagi istrinya, ibarat sebuah pertandingan, itu merupakan pukulan telak, kecewa..kecewa. Awalnya suaminya cuek saja. Tapi pada akhirnya dia menyadari bahwa sikapnya kurang benar. Ya, setidaknya membukakan pintu dan tersenyum sambil basa-basi menanyakan apakah perjalanannya baik-baik saja itu cukup. Tapi sayang, hal itu tak dilakukannya. Dia baru sadar ketika melihat gelagat istrinya yang lagi benar-benar BT alias butuh tatih tayang….

Ada juga kisah imajinatif yang inspiratif….tentang ayam dan bebek.

Suatu ketika sepasang pengantin baru berjalan-jalan menikmati indahnya perkampungan yang masih belum tersentuh bising dan aroma kota. Ketika mereka bercanda, tiba-tiba terdengar suara dari kejauhan “Kuek.kuek..kuek”

“Dengar sayang, ada ayam” kata istrinya

“bukan..bukan, itu suara bebek” kata suaminya.

“nggak, itu suara ayam” istrinya bersikeras.

“istriku..itu suara bebek, suara ayam itu bunyinya kukururyuuuuk, kalau bebek itu ya kuek..kuek..kuek, nah itu bebek sayang, bukan ayam “kata suaminya mencoba menjelaskan.

“Nggak, aku yakin itu suara ayam” kata istrinya

“Sayang, itu bebek, kamu ini..kamuuuuuuuu” suaminya agak kesal

seketika itu basahlah pipi istrinya, dia menangis sambil tersendu tapi tetap berkata.

“Aku yakin itu ayam, bukan bebek” masih kata istrinya.

Kemudian sang suami sadar tak mau ribut lagi dan berkata.

“Ya kamu benar sayang, itu suara ayam” kata suaminya bersamaan dengan suara dari kejauhan ..kuek..kuek..kuek..

Kadang seorang suami memang perlu bersikap demikian. Untuk sesuatu yang kecil dan sepele tak perlu terlalu diributkan. Yang terpenting adalah membangun keharmonisan rumah tangga. Pertikaian dan hancurnya rumah tangga seringkali terjadi karena kita meributkan hal-hal sepele. Maka dari itu, untuk mencegahnya kita perlu sesekali memahami isi hati seorang wanita yang kita cintai itu

Dan pada akhirnya, untuk menghormati dia, seorang wanita yang kita cintai, kita perlu bersikap bijaksana. Itu semua perlu dilakukan, seperti syair dalam lagu pop… karena wanita ingin dimengerti. Itu saja.

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